It's not called ksing nub, it's called a lock fight. Some of our members still need drops before they can get dl, so personally I won't stop killing them until we are done. Also you're lower level so you should be able to lock them easily.
No babe, even if you meet "her" irl it could still be a dude but he might have sent some random chick to meet u and have coms in her ear telling her what to say. Just be satisfied with me xoxo