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My phone, my activeness and..... my mom....

Posted: Wed Mar 02, 2016 10:42 pm
by raylooi2015
Current situation is, my mom took away my phone..... again..... This time she did not have a reason. All i know is that she secretly took it when i was asleep and locked it up in her own room. I think this is stupid because she has no reason to take my phone.

My phone - Currently, my phone is in a safe in my parents room, rotting away.

My activeness - The only way i can play now is if im able to sneak into my parents room, unlock the safe and grab my phone. Then ill have to go back and put the phone back. This is troublesome so i may not log as much given the current situation.

My mom - Shes asian so she thinks that taking away ur phone is the right thing to do... Its already hard to play ch when u have a Singaporean mom yelling at u 24/7 to study, go for lessons, etc.

So anyways, i wont be on as much. If u see me log (RayRecarnation), it might only be for dailies or 5 mins depending on the situation.

Good luck n have fun :)
while i rot away in my house with no phone....

Re: My phone, my activeness and..... my mom....

Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2016 1:01 am
by GhostlyBlaze15
I know how you feel. Once my mom changed my phone password because she thought that I cut class when the teacher just accidentally marked me as absent :lol:
My solution was to find my old Ipod 5 and use that. It was fun and all up until my little sister saw my on it but I easily bribed her with candy :D

Gl man, now i can beat you to 170 :p

Re: My phone, my activeness and..... my mom....

Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2016 10:47 am
by fr3gryf
to the OP. I had the same troubles years ago!
Technique i applied, as i had not enough cash to buy an hidden ipod.

I shown my mother that i NEEDED the phone to work. I explain: when hhe kept it hidden, i told her:
Mum, i finished my exercise and i want to see if my friend x got the same answer. So she gave me the phone 5 sec to write text and took it back. Then 10 min later i came back ajd said mum i need to see his answer. Etc etc...
She got bored quickly, and with dad they decided to change rules: i needed to put my phone in the livingroom so i could check texts and they could check my use of the phone. I used silent mode vith vibration as i wanted to know when i had a text. And this noise made them crazy hahaha.
Meaning they forgot about those rules;) took me a week heheh, phone back, bad marks back and ch back hahah

Hope itll work for u. Nowaday most parents think phone truely distruba you whereas they could teach u how to use it for work. Its a good tool for both and u can explain that to them.

Cons here: idk how old are you...so it might not work.if you are too young

Hope it helps;)

Re: My phone, my activeness and..... my mom....

Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2016 4:36 pm
by GhostlyBlaze15
When ever I got caught with my phone when I wasn't supposed to have it my parents always said,"You think we're dumb?" and I always said to myself "you have no idea" because I outsmart my parents all the time without them knowing. Lesson here is - Outsmart your parents, it's easy to do, just make sure you're being extra sneaky :twisted:

Re: My phone, my activeness and..... my mom....

Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2016 8:04 pm
by Aileron
Your mom doesnt make you study and work hard at school out of spite and to punish you.
She loves you and wants you do be successful in life, and in many Asian cultures, it starts early - like in grade school.

But if she took your phone away, it means you are unable to show her that you can balance your time between studying and gaming. Entetainment is good to unwind and take a breather, it isnt good either with too much studying. "All work and no play makes one a dull person" as the saying goes, but based on what you said, your mom definitely has a reason to limit your play time. Maybe she saw your report apple.

Re: My phone, my activeness and..... my mom....

Posted: Thu Mar 10, 2016 8:19 pm
by Aerial
Your mom doesnt make you study and work hard at school out of spite and to punish you.
She loves you and wants you do be successful in life, and in many Asian cultures, it starts early - like in grade school.

But if she took your phone away, it means you are unable to show her that you can balance your time between studying and gaming. Entetainment is good to unwind and take a breather, it isnt good either with too much studying. "All work and no play makes one a dull person" as the saying goes, but based on what you said, your mom definitely has a reason to limit your play time. Maybe she saw your report apple.