Criminal, I don't think your comment is worth the effort...ur a level 45 druid trying to help someone 80 levels higher?
Yer not gonna get yer dps Druid to be akin to a military monk. No way.
But you can make a more offensive based druid, that is still valued in groups with a high touch, high embrace and high bark.
The real issue is however that the Druid is always recasting bark, at least a military can cast their buffs for a long time, a dps druid needs to keep embrace and bark on at all times, and like Caliban has remarked, try to load up on Summer Dragon gear that can boost yer Melee dps.
In terms of skills, as said above, Vines, Storm's, Lightning, Touch, Embrace & Bark need to be your first hot bar, with optional weak wind, and a item. All the items Cali listed will help you if you can get them. But without a true militant talent tree yer never gonna be pulling their kinda fun loving DPS, area or otherwise....that a milt can dish out.