Zuper no offence, but your posts are leaning me towards the idea that you haven't played a support Mage. A support Mage with a maxed Ass Lure, Max Fire Lure, Maxed Cloak and High Energy Regen skills, is top of my list for grouping. They cut aggra time in half (possibly more) and are incredibly important. Also greatly increase the rate at which you kill whilst group lvling, (notso knows about that one). I went through a phase of using elixers from 133-144. After I had trained with a Mage with maxed ass lure, I wouldn't lix again without a Mage there.
Ask any rogue or ranger, A support Mage with a maxed ass lure is their ideal partner and certainly does not suck
EDIT: No offence notso, but I couldn't solo golems either. A 1* was a close fight, 2* I could maybe possibly kill if I got lucky with dodges 1/10 times, 3* I'd get my ass handed to me everytime. I had to level from 100-144 with a Druid by my side every step of the way. Everyone knows otherworld is not specifically ment for soloing, the idea was to group (atleast that's what I got told when I was *** about it being too hard).
EDIT2: Lures should be able to take enemies into - resists.. Mobs can take our resists into - cant they?