Dersu, more great advice, many thanks! Unfortunately, I am on Danu, but I will take your advice and see what I can come with on this world. And no, I don't have totem skill so I will have to look into this as well. So, if I buy a totem without the skill it will just be a weapon but won't skill up, or will I not even be able to equip it?
No problem at all. The Druid community is very good for helping new players who ask concrete questions
That's too bad. I still have my first Totem that you could have had.
You can buy and equip a Totem whenever you like. But it would be the same as using a non Druid weapon. In order to get better at using it, you will need to get to the Stonevale farm and learn the ability from a trainer. I think it costs 100 gold to learn the skill.
Then you will see the skill increase as you use it. As your ability increases, you will miss less. As for getting to the farm, you have a couple options: Ask a higher level to escort you/block for you; buy an invisibility potion from someone (or do you have one yet from doing the questline?); just run yer tail off.
I just ran like the dickens. If you run it by yourself, I would probably go in through the boar side of Stone (ummm... so from the McCroin (sp?) camp, cross the little bridge and go to the corner where the woodcutter is, enter from there). The reason I say that is because that path leads directly to the farm. If you enter Stone at Greygorge, you will have to pass through a Faerie field which might be dangerous. Anyway, just run run run.
While you are at the farm, take the opportunity to harvest a bunch of mushrooms. there are 7 or 8 that grow there and no enemies to worry about.
The cheapest Totem is sold at the McCroin camp (will need to quest to unlock the vendor). Take a look at it. I forget the name, but it is about 2600 gold. I would then try shouting to buy that Totem. I wouldn't spend days and days shouting for it though. You might very well have to buy from the vendor, as it isn't an item that is sitting in everyone's backpack. Well worth it though, as you will be using a Totem skilled weapon for most of your career. And of course, it allow you to hold an off hand.
Good luck, and feel free to ask anything you are unsure about.