'Hermeneutic of Generosity' - This is a term that has come up in my professional life this year - but is a concept that has worked well for me for years. Hermeneutic is basically a fancy word for interpretation. If you practice Hermeneutics of Generosity - it basically means that you assume the best in people. Don't look for reasons to criticize or find fault - but assume (at least until proven otherwise) that someones actions or feelings are justified or coming from a good place. It doesn't mean you agree or that they are 'right', just that you assume they have a good reason for their actions. Seeing things from their perspective and why they chose to do what they did. By assuming someones actions were NOT from a place of meanness, it often allows for better conversations and resolving of issues. I know full well that my propensity for seeing both sides, or choosing to believe, is often a cause of frustration for many and makes me look naive or wishy-washy, but overall it has allowed me to have a pleasant playing experience with friends from all clans.
There has, lately, been a lot of tension between Alliance and Ancients. Some of it revolves around specific incidents, some around general impressions or interpretation of behaviors, and some just based on unverifiable rumors. Axon and I have spoken at length. Neither of us want things to escalate. Those who have been around a long time may recall the nasty times between Berserkers and Ancients. It made playing not very fun - especially if you have friends in both clans. No one really wins these types of 'wars' - it simply adds a level of stress that makes the game less enjoyable for many.
i won't try to address any specific incidents here - but we are actively trying to resolve some issues and offer recompense where appropriate.
One thing we did decide: for EDL 6* bosses, we will shout that the boss is up, so every clan has the opportunity to get there. No secret EDL boss kills. The shout will be when the boss is first noticed by someone, and when it looks like an attack might actually happen (people start to gather). Appropriate time will be given for people to arrive - you should announce you are coming in shouts (or clan chat that is relayed to the group).
Having been though many updates, i can say that tensions and poor decisions often occur at this time when suddenly everyone is trying to level and competition is very high. leveling costs time and money and no one wants to waste either. In general, rooms are first come first served, but we should make allowances for sharing an area where appropriate. We should also try to group. In many zones there are good leveling areas for different level mobs - like 217 room, a 218 room, a 220 room, a 216-218 area on floor 5. if your group is level 216 (max) in a 220 room, please consider moving to the 217 room if a higher level group comes in - since you will still get the same xp and they will have a place to level. Though i think this is common courtesy, it is also worth saying. The other floors also have multiple areas of different level mobs.
i have no problem using this thread to clear the air and try to get on better footing. as i mentioned we are going to try to address individual issues off line. However, please keep comments respectful. Let's work toward a better working relationship, not fuel the flames and make things worse.
i know that we will never get everyone on board. But i hope that everyone will be heard and understood. We don't need unanimity, but a large group consensus on how to move forward is a worthy goal.
thanks
Hermeneutic of Generosity
#1Civility, Integrity, and the Hermeneutic of Generosity
World: Lugh
Akbar: Ranger 220+
DrXyn-Druid 180+
Xyn: Mage 170+
Rabka: Rogue 150+
Rabak: Warrior 90+
Clan: Chieftain of Ancients
World: Lugh
Akbar: Ranger 220+
DrXyn-Druid 180+
Xyn: Mage 170+
Rabka: Rogue 150+
Rabak: Warrior 90+
Clan: Chieftain of Ancients