You're probably right
Maybe you just haven't found the right people on Epona ^^
But I agree, the community is what makes the game enjoyable. I think as long as you have the right people surrounding you, you'll be able to find a happy place for yourself on just about any server.
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Just for extra clarification I am in no way hating on Epona, totally love it there (much love Goonies, y'all are ace).
I know you love it reeeeeally ♥Gwydion is nice, but isn't by all means perfect because of high plat prices and only one dominant clan.