Why should the superior clan have to hold that obligation? So that if you have the numbers they shouldn't have the right to go for the boss at all?The dominate clans need to lead by example, they set the morals for the server, as they can lock out the minor clans from getting any drops and halt their growth. If the dominate clan is insulting and doing dirty tactics then it will be expected from the minor clans. You cant be the bigger person doing things that paint you in a negative light.
They can do things their way and your clan can do it your way, you cant be setting standards for the opposing clan.