I am glad that you have said your piece Jezzy, and I agree with pretty much everything that you said. Personally I couldn't care less about getting frags and all that business. My main objective was to have a clan that could have fun, be respectful of EVERYONE (that goes for the highest ranked players too), get along as best we can, play hard, and work well as a team.
Akebrett and I have a blast roaming all over stonevale killing regular mobs and cracking wise; newbs ask me for help killing so and so, and if I am not busy I help them out. We don't stand around waiting for others to kill bosses, we get out there and EXPLORE and enjoy the nice game onethumb has provided... And when I say people have to be helpful to others I don't mean just ppl in our membership. I don't care if they are in TBW, Legends, TheWatchList, or the Wu Tang Clan for that matter - being nice and helpful (when I can) is my main motto, and I hope to foster that in ALL TBW members.
Since the update, at various points there have been very high tensions between clanmates, but I have groqwn weary of trying to improve clan morale or settle disputes constantly. I don't mind it once in a while, but EVERYONE needs to work on their social graces and keeping it fun. People also have to realize that sometime others have had a bad day, or are in a crappy mood sometimes, but when it continues for too long, it spreads like a poison... It takes a village people!
I do realize that others have tried to help build morale as well, and I greatly appreciate any and all efforts made by others to make TBW the best dang clan on Epona!
I am going to stop ranting now before this starts to get incoherent but suffice it to say, I want people to feel welcome here - I don't want TBW to become clique-ish...
I will say that I don't think we should scrap thewatchlist, but perhaps we should make it so that people who reach a certain level automatically get promoted if they wish... I am willing to open it up for discussion, and of course it is BK's clan, so obviously we need his input...
Anywho, I hope that at least some of my points get across here. And remember Papa Shaggadelic loves all his children, he just wishes that you didn't fight so much...
(Group hug anyone?)